Teaching your child to drive is a significant milestone for both parent and teenager. It's a mix of excitement, nervousness, and a touch of nostalgia. As a parent, you have the privilege of imparting a skill that's not just about maneuvering a vehicle, but also about responsibility, confidence, and road awareness.

Where do I start?

First and foremost, it's essential to establish a foundation of trust and patience. Your teen trusts you to teach them, but you also need to trust them to learn! Start in an empty parking lot to let your teen get comfortable behind the wheel, allowing them to grasp the basics of steering, braking, and accelerating. Gradually progress to quiet streets and then busier roads as their confidence grows.

Communication is key. Create an open dialogue about road rules, defensive driving, and potential hazards. Encourage questions and discussions about real-world scenarios they might encounter. Stress the importance of distraction-free driving, seat belt usage, and the significance of obeying traffic laws.

Lead by example. Your teen watches your driving habits, so exhibit responsible behavior on the road. Teach them to anticipate the actions of other drivers, be patient, and practice empathy while navigating through traffic.

How do I deal with stressful situations?

Mistakes are part of the learning process. Remain calm when errors happen, using them as teachable moments rather than reasons for frustration. Constructive feedback helps build their skills and self-assurance. 

What if something happens?

In the event of a surprise or emergency situation, the best thing to do is speak clearly and guide them to safety. Panicking is not helpful to you or your teen. If possible, continue driving after pulling over and calming down. This way, they learn how to resolve conflict and aren't reluctant to get on the road next time.

If you have a new driver in your house, it's understandable to get anxious in or out of the car with them. If you need any help managing these feelings and gaining peace of mind, book a free call with us!

I don't know if I can teach everything.

The responsibility of building a confident, safe driver is a great one, but there are tons of online resources to help! Check out this article from ColonialDrivingSchool.com!

If you aren't sure you're up to the task, you may consider enrolling your teen in a formal driver's education course, which offers professional instruction, simulated experiences, and in-depth knowledge of road safety. Make sure to let your teen know about this plan beforehand, or explain why you are switching them to a professional course if you have been driving together already. A sudden change, especially after a scary event while driving, can be detrimental to your teen's confidence on the road.

Ultimately, teaching your child to drive requires a delicate balance of guidance and freedom. Watching them master this skill and become a responsible driver is immensely rewarding, and also very scary! It's important that you and your teen work together to build a learning environment of trust, patience, and pride. Happy driving!